Mar 12 2009
Fat -The New Sexy

If you think that because you are fat, overweight, obese, chubby or whatever word you use for yourself keeps you from being sexy, think again. I’ve always said that “sexy is a state of mind” and that is so true. If you think about it, who is sexier, the size 2 woman who walks down the street, head bowed, shoulders slouched forward, hair covering her face because she is looking at her shoes as she walks, or the size 22 woman who walks with confidence, shoulders back, head held high and proud? I suppose it’s all in how you look at it. Actually, it’s all about what you desire. Some people prefer very thin partners, others prefer a hard athletic body, others still, prefer a little more meat on the bones. What ever your preference, there is someone out there for you so don’t despair.
I found a wonderful article at the blogsite called “Sexy Old Broad ” on this subject. It is well worth the trip over there to read it. Follow the link here to find it and then look in the mirror and say to yourself “I am sexy and I am proud!”


That size two girl doesn’t have boobs, either. I like a girl with a little meat on her bones.
I am one hot sexy chick…I am one hot sexy chick…>looks in the mirror< I am one chick. I am one chick.
I’m working on it. I agree that too skinny is a bit yucky, but as I’m pushing it…there is also a limit on chubbiness.
Bil_Finger: Haha… You’re right, no boobs! Any you have good taste
Melissan: Yeah, I suppose you’re right, but as they say, “beauty is in the eye of the beholder”.
Thank you both for reading and for your comments
I think that sexy is a state of mind and all about attitude. However, with my body image problems the heavier I get the worse I feel about myself and the less sexy I feel. Feeling sexy is really hard sometimes!! LOL
Great post! Be sexy is all in your attitude and how you carry yourself.
The fact that I will never be a size 2 or even a size 12 is actually comforting in some respects. Sure I could stand to lose a few pounds, but not to make me sexier, just healthier.
Thanks for a terrific perspective on the art of sexiness for the meatier women, who are beautiful in every way!!